Blink by Malcolm Gladwell

I was attending a lecture by my colleague in St. Louis 2 weeks ago and I really liked how he envisioned the facial aging process. He likened it to the book, Blink, by Malcolm Gladwell. For those who have not read Blink or Gladwell’s other phenomenal book, The Tipping Point, I would highly recommend both reads.

Gladwell’s thesis is that we judge another individual or almost anything in a visceral blink of an eye. It does not take 5 minutes to figure out something but we can tell almost immediately about something and we are typically correct in our initial assumptions, which are also very hard to shake if we are wrong.

That is how we view each other when it comes to aging. We can almost instantaneously tell if the other person is older, younger, attractive, or unattractive. We can tell in a blink of an eye from 10 feet away. However, when people come in to fix something, usually they are focused on the minutiae that no other human being can even see. In particular, because women put makeup on, the tiny lines around the mouth (that no one can see. believe me.), the crepiness of the upper eyelid, the dot on the right cheek, the tiny asymmetry of the upper lip, etc. are on the top of the wish list for correction even though after paying all the money to do those things nothing really looks any better.

Instead, I truly believe that overall facial shape (geometry) and proportion is how we make a judgment about another person in a blink of the eye. So, when people come to see me, I would rather help them create a favorable blink impression on all those around them than try to fix the minor flaws that only they can see. If you want to understand how we view aging geometrically, you can watch the first part of my video lecture I gave 2 weeks ago in St. Louis that discusses in my opinion an original thesis on how we see aging. Here is the link to the video.

Btw, a patient of mine told me that Gladwell’s new book is coming out in a few weeks so I checked it out on Google, and it’s called Outliers, about how successful people are successful not just because of who they are but where they are from (at least that is what Amazon says).

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